I realized that when people talk about being together with someone for a long time, they have no idea how long that person is going to be with them. What if they fall out of love, runaway from you, or cheat on you? If you're in love with a spectacular person, you must understand that trust is the number one priority in a relationship, it comes even before love. If you trust someone you won't be constantly worrying about what they are doing, that feeling of a gap or rather the long distance. It's the feeling of love not lasting forever, like it will slowly start to fade like your mother's jean jack from the sixties. The healthiest types of relationships are ones where you lead your own life, and then lean on him or her when you need them the most. However, it's not in a sense of dependence, but rather convenience and desire. Although, you can't be afraid to lean on them just because they will see your venerable. They already know you, sometimes better than you know yourself. Let them help you. Just trust the one person that makes you soar, and when they come to the realization that they have your complete trust. They can't ever break you, because they know you won't break them. Don't be afraid to trust if you know it's the right person to love. Love is dangerous, and as Spongebob stated, "Love is handing someone a loaded gun, and letting them point it at your head, believing they won't pull the trigger." However, when I gave him the gun he merely placed it down because he realized he couldn't hold my hand and gun, simultaneously. So as I conclude, I urge you to just give them the gun.
